Positive relationships with the people around us gives us happier, more satisfying and also healthier lives. That is true both in private and at work. Trainingmag.com therefore brought eight practical recommendations on how to establish and maintain positive relationships.
1. Welcome differences
All others will never think like you and you would probably even not want us to be all the same. Begin, therefore, with learning to accept and welcome diversity.
2. Listen actively
By listening to others, you increase their self-esteem, show your respect for them. Practice, therefore, active listening to show that you really listen. Before you start speaking, make sure that you have understand really well.
3. Devote your time to others
The ability to devote time, energy and effort to develop positive relationships with other people is one of the most worthwhile abilities in our lives. However, it does not mean only spending time together physically, but also mentally.
4. Learn to communicate better
Just the fact that you speak does not mean that someone wants to listen to you or that someone understands. The aim of all of your communications should be clarity and a pleasant feeling of all involved.
5. Learn how to use your mobile phone properly
You don't have to know the latest technology but the fundamental ethical rules. Even if you have a cell phone with you everywhere, not every place is suitable for dealing with your private matters in front of others (especially in a loud voice).
6. Work with feedback
Any feedback given to you can bring you something, show you new horizons. Try, therefore, to be open both to receive and to provide feedback.
7. Trust people more
Every good relationship is built on trust.
8. Develop your empathy
Empathy is the ability to perceive the feelings of others and adapt to them. Although people will forget what you told them, they will remember how you made them feel.
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